Melt down in the Cafeteria

Have you ever had a moment in motherhood, where you wish you could transfer the term "mom" to some other lost soul? Well that is my mommy moment from this morning. We had a tough night as you can read on the entry below, and to make matters worst, Mattie woke up at 6 am!?!?! I of course, being the smart mama I am, turned on the cartoon channel and went back to sleep (you know you all have done it!) until 8 am. Once we were up and going it was time to get some breakfast in the cafeteria. I asked Mattie, more than once if he wanted some yogurt and he replied, more than once that he did not. He opted for some peanut butter toast, muffin, fruit and eggs. We were in line and the man in front of us, had a meal voucher with no extra cash and went over in cost which made him give his yogurt back to the cashier to decrease the cost. Once he was done, I took the yogurt he had set aside and asked to have it added to my order. I thought, this will be a kind and giving gesture, as I needed to have a positive moment to start out my day. Once I paid for everything, I saw the man and handed him the yogurt, telling him that I hope he has a good day. Mattie saw my interaction as the man took the yogurt, thanked me and walked away. As soon as this occurred, a massive temper tantrum ensued! No joke, right in the front of the cafeteria Mattie, in his police car screamed at the top of his lungs "mama, no that is my yogurt! I want that yogurt, give me that yogurt" Thank God the man walked away so quickly as he might have felt guilty and tried to return it but now I was left with a tray of food, and a toddler out of control. He was crying and trying to make his way back to where the yogurt was and I was trying to stop him in the crowd as well as juggle the tray full of breakfast. I wanted to sink in the crowd and feel bad for the mother having to deal with an intolerable and tired child, but instead I WAS THE MOM! Somehow, through a prayer of patience and complete perseverance we made our way down the long corridor to the elevator which became another battle. He was trying with all his might to NOT get on that elevator and I was trying with all my might to GET ON the elevator! I wish this was just a funny story I read on a moms website but this is the honest truth. Mommy was ready for a melt down herself as the two of us, exhausted and bedraggled stepped onto the 8th floor. One of our kind nurses greeted us and tried to console Mattie but I knew he needed to eat and rest ASAP! So that is what we did and I lived to write this story (and not in the third person, I may add) so that you all know I am a real mom with crazy moments, just like so many of you.
P.S. DO NOT mention yogurt today as I made the mistake to tell the therapist this story and re-opened the floodgate of tears......