We have had a sucessful surgery today! Praise God! We were up at 4 am to get to Seattle by 6 am, for check in. Mattie was very alert and aware of everything on the way, asking questions and engaging in conversation. Once we arrived at Harborview he was very hungry, but we were unable to give him anything to eat or drink in preparation of the surgery. Once we got into the "holding area" he was all smiles and flirting with the nurses and entertaining the other patients. I was able to dawn the hospital garb (including the hair net and slippers) and we were wheeled in together to the operating room. I held onto him for the gas to be applied, until he was completely out, then I was ushered out of the room. I had peace leaving him in these trusted doctors hands and knew that God would be with him, which was even more comforting.
Jason and I waited for only an hour and then Dr. Pham and our wonderful physical theraphist, Jodi came out and gave us a report on the surgery. They said all went well, but the hard part now will be the next few days (he needs to wear the brace for 5 days) and we have to be sure that it does not come off. He also has a man-made scab created to cover over the area skin was removed off his hip; this area will cause more pain since it is such a thin layer of skin, all the nerves are hyper sensative. They said he was doing good, still groggy of course, but ready for visitors. Mattie was relieved to see us, once we came in the room.
We ended up being in the recovery unit until 3 pm, due to no bed being available on the 8th floor, which lead to restlessness. Once we got up here, Mattie had already made a list of what he wanted to eat and do on the 8th floor. We are on the same floor, we were on the first hospital visit so he was very familiar. He wanted his yellow gown and pants, yellow slipper-socks, juice, graham ers and a mini box cereal. He took off the IV, allowing him to eat and drink. He is now, a few feet away watching a movie and playing a game with his daddy. Mattie is in a great mood, very excited actually to be back here with his little police car and familiar nursing staff! I am so glad he has handled this transition back so well, it makes it easier for me as well.
Thanks for your prayers, encouragaging words and support as we face this next stage of recovery for Mattie! We will continue to update everyone as often as computer access is available.
Friday, February 29, 2008
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
Re-Scheduled Surgery
So, we have an update on here already concerning Mattie's upcoming surgery: it has been re-scheduled. Dr. Pham had an emergency and we needed to change the day from Wednesday to Friday morning (6 am arrival!) This will give more time for healing and prayer to occur for our brave little boy. We do not mind the change as Jason and I already worked out our job schedules and will both be there on the day of the surgery. We know that God has all this in the palm of His hand and that there is a reason to even these small changes occuring.
As I completed Mattie's wound dressing on his arm (which is the only time of the day that it is uncovered), many thoughts came to my mind. We each have wounds we carry in our lives, some of us carry them in a very visable way for all to know and see, while others of us carry them deep inside. The wounds we carry are all different but feel the same...they hurt and are painful. Mattie gets fearful, of the wound cleaning time and will send himself into complete panic as the anxiety he faces will overcome him. Seeing this occur, I have learned to comfort him by reassuring him over and over again, in a calm voice that I will not hurt him and that I love him and want him to get better. I let him know, that I understand it hurts and give him hugs of support. I allow him to do as much as he can, on his own to care for his wounds; he will un-wrap the dressings and dab the area with his wet washcloth. When he cleans he is careful not to rub the areas that cause pain (as we try to repair our hurts on our own, the cleansing is not deep enough to heal, just to look and feel better for awhile). But then I will use the same washcloth, holding his arm still and quickly but efficently wash over the area removing all the old medicine and build up from the wound. (this is like what our Heavenly Father does for us, that we can not do for ourselves). He has learned that when I clean it, I will be fast and the process will go quicker even if it is painful and he seems to be trusting me more each day to care for him. Though it is a battle to release the washcloth from his hand to mine, he is learning to trust those who care for him to not cause harm to his body but care for him through the pain. (This is the battle I face myself, to trust God to get me through the pain of this experience with my son. I daily am passing him the "washcloth" in hopes he will make the process go by faster and that he will help Mattie's pain go away).
As I completed Mattie's wound dressing on his arm (which is the only time of the day that it is uncovered), many thoughts came to my mind. We each have wounds we carry in our lives, some of us carry them in a very visable way for all to know and see, while others of us carry them deep inside. The wounds we carry are all different but feel the same...they hurt and are painful. Mattie gets fearful, of the wound cleaning time and will send himself into complete panic as the anxiety he faces will overcome him. Seeing this occur, I have learned to comfort him by reassuring him over and over again, in a calm voice that I will not hurt him and that I love him and want him to get better. I let him know, that I understand it hurts and give him hugs of support. I allow him to do as much as he can, on his own to care for his wounds; he will un-wrap the dressings and dab the area with his wet washcloth. When he cleans he is careful not to rub the areas that cause pain (as we try to repair our hurts on our own, the cleansing is not deep enough to heal, just to look and feel better for awhile). But then I will use the same washcloth, holding his arm still and quickly but efficently wash over the area removing all the old medicine and build up from the wound. (this is like what our Heavenly Father does for us, that we can not do for ourselves). He has learned that when I clean it, I will be fast and the process will go quicker even if it is painful and he seems to be trusting me more each day to care for him. Though it is a battle to release the washcloth from his hand to mine, he is learning to trust those who care for him to not cause harm to his body but care for him through the pain. (This is the battle I face myself, to trust God to get me through the pain of this experience with my son. I daily am passing him the "washcloth" in hopes he will make the process go by faster and that he will help Mattie's pain go away).
One question, I have been asked is what does Mattie know about the surgery? We have explained to him that we are going back to the hospital for another stay and the doctors there are going to help his arm get better. He seems content with that much information and trust that as long as he is with his parents he will be ok. We will be praying with him for God to heal him through the surgery, on Thursday night, as well.Thanks again for the support and love you have all shown to us, and know that whatever hurt you are facing in your life, God knows your pain and hears your suffering. Lean on him for strength and trust him for your healing.......
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Update on 2/22
"Be anxious for nothing but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God." Phil. 4:6
On the way up to Seattle, Jason and I prayed that we would have a positive minded Doctor, one that would share with us how Mattie is doing in a positive way. Well we got our prayer answered but not in the way we had planned to hear it.
I knew before we walked in the doors that Mattie's thigh area is almost completely healed as well as the back part of the elbow but the middle (where the skin is the tightest is) was not looking good. It was bleeding, looking very "fleshy" and bumpy. I thought this was part of the process as we do theraphy on it. Dr. Pham informed us that yes his thigh and back part of the elbow are almost all healed up, but the inner elbow was a concern. He said it is not healing properly, there is vertical healing happening which is when there are raised spots on the burn areas. This vertical healing will have lasting damage to his skin. Also he is still having problems using the right arm and at this point with the theraphy being done, it should be showing more signs of improvement and less pain, which is not the case. The doctor was very understanding and compassionate to us, as he informed us of the process of a skin graft surgery. He will have skin from his left thight removed and used on the elbow area, the process is about 1 1/2 hrs. long. Though the surgery is not what we had wanted, we do feel that we need to consider the best process to bring lasting healing to our little one's body. I did not leave feeling frustrated because my prayer was answered and God gave me peace in our decision. I realized it is all how I choose to see this situation: as a positive step in a right direction or crushing the hope of natural healing we had. I have chosen the first and have peace. A peace that only our God can give.
I believe in the power of prayer and ask you all to join us in praying between now and then for God, the great physician, to heal Mattie with or without the doctor's help. I have confidence in our decision to seek this surgery for our son after getting some good insight on how this will help him ultimatley recovery, though we still have a lot of work to do with theraphy once the surgery is complete. We have scheduled the surgery for Mattie, next Wednesday (2/27/08)morning at Harborview with Dr. Pham. He will again be recovering on the burn floor, at Harborview for 3-5 days.
P.S. Praise God for the healing done to majority of the burned area that Mattie started with! The healing done already has bulit my faith as I personally have seen His healing hand.....
On the way up to Seattle, Jason and I prayed that we would have a positive minded Doctor, one that would share with us how Mattie is doing in a positive way. Well we got our prayer answered but not in the way we had planned to hear it.
I knew before we walked in the doors that Mattie's thigh area is almost completely healed as well as the back part of the elbow but the middle (where the skin is the tightest is) was not looking good. It was bleeding, looking very "fleshy" and bumpy. I thought this was part of the process as we do theraphy on it. Dr. Pham informed us that yes his thigh and back part of the elbow are almost all healed up, but the inner elbow was a concern. He said it is not healing properly, there is vertical healing happening which is when there are raised spots on the burn areas. This vertical healing will have lasting damage to his skin. Also he is still having problems using the right arm and at this point with the theraphy being done, it should be showing more signs of improvement and less pain, which is not the case. The doctor was very understanding and compassionate to us, as he informed us of the process of a skin graft surgery. He will have skin from his left thight removed and used on the elbow area, the process is about 1 1/2 hrs. long. Though the surgery is not what we had wanted, we do feel that we need to consider the best process to bring lasting healing to our little one's body. I did not leave feeling frustrated because my prayer was answered and God gave me peace in our decision. I realized it is all how I choose to see this situation: as a positive step in a right direction or crushing the hope of natural healing we had. I have chosen the first and have peace. A peace that only our God can give.
I believe in the power of prayer and ask you all to join us in praying between now and then for God, the great physician, to heal Mattie with or without the doctor's help. I have confidence in our decision to seek this surgery for our son after getting some good insight on how this will help him ultimatley recovery, though we still have a lot of work to do with theraphy once the surgery is complete. We have scheduled the surgery for Mattie, next Wednesday (2/27/08)morning at Harborview with Dr. Pham. He will again be recovering on the burn floor, at Harborview for 3-5 days.
P.S. Praise God for the healing done to majority of the burned area that Mattie started with! The healing done already has bulit my faith as I personally have seen His healing hand.....
Prayer for 2/20
Some of you have heard we have a Clinic visit up in Seattle at Harborview today. I am requesting prayer for the following items:
1. Mattie to be in a good mood and follow instructions
2. The Doctor would be optomistic about Mattie's healing, giving us good news
3. The theraphist, Jodi to be encouraged by Mattie's elbow movement
4. Safe travels and a good visit
The Lord is Good and he cares for Mattie more than we do. Whatever the outcome I know that God has him in the palm of his hand. I will be updating later tonight as we will pend the evening as a family! (picture of Mattie with his get well card pile! He is a loved boy)
1. Mattie to be in a good mood and follow instructions
2. The Doctor would be optomistic about Mattie's healing, giving us good news
3. The theraphist, Jodi to be encouraged by Mattie's elbow movement
4. Safe travels and a good visit
The Lord is Good and he cares for Mattie more than we do. Whatever the outcome I know that God has him in the palm of his hand. I will be updating later tonight as we will pend the evening as a family! (picture of Mattie with his get well card pile! He is a loved boy)
Sunday, February 17, 2008
Update on 2/17
Mattie is amazing! He is growing out of the pain as we progress through the physical theraphy daily! He let me put on his "arm straightener" without much more than a wimper the last two nights. He is more willing to do arm stretches as well, when he is distracted. He still hates wound changes on his elbow area, so please pray for healing. It is hard to get him to bathe in the bathtub, he refuses to sit in the water or shower. We end up just washing the wounds every other day, which is ok with the Doctor. His hip area is healing so well! I think by the time we go in for our Wednesday visit we will be doing minimal wrapping of that area! His elbow, is still a concern though. The back part of the joint is looking really good but the middle area is pretty torn up with all the theraphy we have to do on it. Thanks for your continued concern and prayers. We so appreciate our prayer warriers!!
At church on Sunday, Joey spoke of Hope (looking forward to something you really expect to happen) and I am leaning on the hope that God will heal Mattie's elbow without surgery. I need to hold fast to that Hope and trust the great physician to heal him.
At church on Sunday, Joey spoke of Hope (looking forward to something you really expect to happen) and I am leaning on the hope that God will heal Mattie's elbow without surgery. I need to hold fast to that Hope and trust the great physician to heal him.
Monday, February 11, 2008
Praise God!! 2/11/08
I was thinking all day about this one pesimistic doctor that comes around always talking about surgery....and finally I prayed that she would not be his Doctor today. I was feeling uncertain of his healing progress, at least in his elbow area . I knew the other areas were coming along nicely and was encouraged by that. God answered my prayer when a different doctor came in to observe Mattie's wounds! I was elated as his words flowed freely of encouragement over his progress, even in his elbow area. He said "...at this time we are not going to consider surgery! But we will be evaluating the wounds next week, as they seem to show singificant signs of natural healing."
So for now we are on a great path! God is so Good and I knew he would get us through this trial, without putting us through more than we can handle. Thank you for sharing in our good news and for praying for us!
We also had another praise concerning the car, the insurance is done with their process and the car is being worked on. FINALLY! So we hope tomorrow to get a call to pick it up! Yes!
I better get back to my boys, but stay tuned for the most current and interesting updates.......
So for now we are on a great path! God is so Good and I knew he would get us through this trial, without putting us through more than we can handle. Thank you for sharing in our good news and for praying for us!
We also had another praise concerning the car, the insurance is done with their process and the car is being worked on. FINALLY! So we hope tomorrow to get a call to pick it up! Yes!
I better get back to my boys, but stay tuned for the most current and interesting updates.......
Sunday, February 10, 2008
As we approach Day 16
Tonight as I write this email, I have a lot on my mind. Mattie seems to be coming down with something as he woke up from a 4 hour nap with a deep cough, that sounds very congested. He has been home with very little interaction since the hospital stay. He ended up having the stomach flu the first night we were home for the 24 hour duration...yuck! I am feeling frustrated that he may now have something else, but not suprised as his immune system is probably very low right now. We are gearing up tomorrow afternoon for our doctor visit at Harbor View once again, this appointment is at 1 pm. His wounds are looking better from my understanding of the healing process. I am praying that the visit is good and very productive. I know God is the Great Physician and will not allow Mattie's body to go through more than necessary. One thing I have really enjoyed is all the cuddle time from my normally hyper 3 year old! Mattie is a blessing from God and we are so glad he has done so well.We are still struggling with using one car for everything! The insurance is slow to get someone out to look at the damage and until that happens we are a one car family. So tomorrow my mom is helping us out with the commuting process. Please pray that this things is done soon, as my patience along with Jason's is low right now. We are trusting God and he is faithful in every way!
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